Category — Food for the mind
Reading
…”The Last Lecture” by Randy Pausch. I had earlier watched his hour long lecture, but the book has more details and also parts about his r/s with his wife that he didn’t dare talk about in his last lecture due his not being able to handle the emotional trauma on stage. Parts or stuff I like that we can all learn from:
I am a spreader. My clothes, clean and dirty are spread around the bedroom, and my bathroom sink is cluttered. It drives Jai crazy. Before I got sick, she’d say something. But Dr. Reiss has advised her not to let small things trip us up. Obviously I ought to be neater. I owe Jai many apologies. But she has stopped telling me about the minor stuff that bugs her. do we really want to spend our last months together arguing that I haven’t hung up my khakis? We do no. So now Jai kicks my clothes into a corner and moves on.
I think many of us live with situations like the above…and this is reminder to us to not sweat the small stuff I guess.
When we send our kids to play organized sports-football, soccer, swimming, whatever-for most of us, it’s not because we’re desperate for them to learn the intricacies of the sport. What we really want them to learn is far more important: teamwork, preseverance, sportsmanship, the value of hard work, an ability to deal with adversity.
I totally agree with the above statement and the experience of my own days with an organized sports stays with me indelibly. I too hope one day, when I have kids to be able to expose, give them the opportunity and support them in some kind of sporting activity.
Take time out-…time is all you have. and you may find one day that you have less than you think.
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One thing that makes it possible to be an optimist is if you have a contingency plan for when all hell breaks loose. There are a lot of things I don’t worry about because I have a plan in place if they do.
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Make a decision: Tigger or Eeyore
November 14, 2008 1 Comment
Animation Nation 2008
Dang! I seem to want to watch everything…
October 24, 2008 No Comments
Shadow Play
You must watch this! Beautiful and brillant performance.
August 28, 2008 No Comments
Powerful story
Open yourself up to new perspectives, images, ideas and head down to the Japanese Film Festival 2008 if you are free. Thanks to a friend, I was able to catch a very powerful, true story: Abduction, The Megumi Yokota story.
August 24, 2008 No Comments
KVLT
Have you heard of KVLT (prounced as Cult)?
The artwork is pretty amazing…plus it is local.
August 9, 2008 No Comments
Boom de yada!
Sing out loud!
July 21, 2008 No Comments
Achieving your childhood dreams
Inspiring and worth the download time…
May 20, 2008 2 Comments
www.alltop.com
I have been using this site called Alltop for a while and I love the idea, functionality and ease use:
“You can think of an Alltop site as a “digital magazine rack” of the Internet. To be clear, Alltop sites are starting points—they are not destinations per se. The bottom line is that we are trying to enhance your online reading by both displaying stories from the sites that you’re already visiting and helping you discover sites that you didn’t know existed. In other words, our goal is the “cessation of Internet stagnation” by providing “aggregation without aggravation.”
May 17, 2008 No Comments
Your Life
My soon to be ex-boss sent us this little story which I love and agree with. Just want to put it down here to document and also to share this with everyone. Have a good weekend!
This was a speech made by Pulitzer Prize-winning author, Anna Quindlen
at the graduation ceremony of an American university where she was
awarded an Honorary PhD.
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“I’m a novelist. My work is human nature. Real life is all I know. Don’t
ever confuse the two, your life and your work. You will walk out of here
this afternoon with only one thing that no one else has. There will be
hundreds of people out there with your same degree: there will be
thousands of people doing what you want to do for a living. But you will
be the only person alive who has sole custody of your life. Your
particular life. Your entire life. Not just your life at a desk, or your
life on a bus, or in a car, or at the computer. Not just the life of
your mind, but the life of your heart. Not just your bank accounts but
also your soul.
People don’t talk about the soul very much anymore. It’s so much easier
to write a resume than to craft a spirit. But a resume is cold comfort
on a winter’s night, or when you’re sad, or broke, or lonely, or when
you’ve received your test results and they’re not so good.
Here is my resume:
I am a good mother to three children. I have tried never to let my work
stand in the way of being a good parent. I no longer consider myself the
centre of the universe. I show up. I listen. I try to laugh. I am a good
friend to my husband. I have tried to make marriage vows mean what they
say. I am a good friend to my friends and they to me. Without them,
there would be nothing to say to you today, because I would be a
cardboard cut out. But I call them on the phone, and I meet them for
lunch. I would be rotten, at best mediocre at my job if those other
things were not true. You cannot be really first rate at your work if
your work is all you are.
So here’s what I wanted to tell you today: Get a life.
A real life, not a manic pursuit of the next promotion, the bigger pay
cheque, the larger house. Do you think you’d care so very much about
those things if you blew an aneurysm one afternoon, or found a lump in
your breast? Get a life in which you notice the smell of salt water
pushing itself on a breeze at the seaside, a life in which you stop and
watch how a red-tailed hawk circles over the water, or the way a baby
scowls with concentration when she tries to pick up a sweet with her
thumb and first finger.
Get a life in which you are not alone. Find people you love, and who
love you. And remember that love is not leisure, it is work. Pick up the
phone. Send an email. Write a letter. Get a life in which you are
generous. And realize that life is the best thing ever, and that you
have no business taking it for granted. Care so deeply about its
goodness that you want to spread it around. Take money you would have
spent on beer and give it to charity. Work in a soup kitchen. Be a big
brother or sister. All of you want to do well. But if you do not do good
too, then doing well will never be enough.
It is so easy to waste our lives, our days, our hours, and our minutes.
It is so easy to take for granted the color of our kids’ eyes, the way
the melody in a symphony rises and falls and disappears and rises again.
It is so easy to exist instead of to live.
I learned to live many years ago. I learned to love the journey, not the
destination. I learned that it is not a dress rehearsal, and that today
is the only guarantee you get. I learned to look at all the good in the
world and try to give some of it back because I believed in it,
completely and utterly. And I tried to do that, in part, by telling
others what I had learned. By telling them this: Consider the lilies of
the field. Look at the fuzz on a baby’s ear. Read in the back yard with
the sun on your face. Learn to be happy. And think of life as a terminal
illness, because if you do, you will live it with joy and passion as it
ought to be lived”.
March 29, 2008 1 Comment
The Thoughtful Dresser in Singapore
Great to be Singaporean?
Linda Grant thinks so! I love to read her articles and blog whichbelieves that a great handbag makes an outfit…she was down in Singapore to promote her latest book, The Clothes on her back.
“I hadn’t realised Singapore was so much fun, and had not realised how many Singaporeans have English as their mother tongue. Someone really should write the great Singapore novel”
February 27, 2008 No Comments
